It was not that long ago that I posted my response to Josh Duggar’s molestation of his little Sisters, and how people, especially Christians, responded to it. To sum it up in one single quote, read the following:
“Saying “what he did was terrible, but he is a changed man” is not enough. As Christians, we understand that the power and forgiveness of Jesus is powerful, but we also know that sin is crippling, addictive, and harmful to us, and those around us.” (See that post Here)
Following that train of thought, it is with a heavy and perplexed heart that I write this blog post today. Yesterday, I read an article on Relevant Magazine‘s website about how Josh Duggar’s email address had been leaked by hackers who exposed all of the email addresses who signed up on the popular cheating-on-your-spouse website – Ashley Madison. Josh was not delayed in his Apology for his actions, and to be fair, I will post that apology below:
“I have been the biggest hypocrite ever. While espousing faith and family values, I have secretly, over the last several years, been viewing pornography on the Internet. This became a secret addiction and I became unfaithful to my wife. I am so ashamed of the double life that I have been living and am grieved for the hurt, pain and disgrace my sin has caused my wife and family, and most of all Jesus and all those who profess faith in Him … I humbly ask for your forgiveness. Please pray for my precious wife Anna and our family during this time.” – Josh Duggar, as quoted on revelantmagazine.com.
In finding out what he had done, I was pretty frustrated at the sin, and if I am honest, I was pretty frustrated with Josh. I saw the Revelant article in my facebook feed, so I decided to look through the comments that other people had left, and within the comments, many people said things similar to the following:
“He did something wrong, he apologized, lets move on…”
“Jesus forgives him, why can’t you guys…”
“Grace should be given to all…”
And people, I get the forgiveness and Grace of God – I really do. If Josh really has repented to God, than by the marvelous Grace of Jesus, He is already forgiven. BUT, and I say that with a heavy heart, he did do wrong, he did violate God’s design for Marriage, and he did it all while staying on a high horse. So while I will stand with you when you say God’s Grace can cover him, I will depart from you when you do not have the courage to stand against pornography, adultery, and when you have a tendency to brush off the sin, in order to defend the example.
I will stand with you when you affirm the Grace and Love of Jesus…
I will stand with you when people speak hate against any person, including Josh Duggar…
I will depart from you when you make an idol out of Christian Celebrities (Sacred Cows), and when you are blinded to their wrongdoing…
I will depart from you when that same marvelous Grace you speak and preach about is limited to a certain demographic…
That last point brings me to the following quote from a young woman named Megan who commented on the Relevant article on Facebook:
“I find it interesting that white evangelical Christians can muster up sympathy for Josh Duggar but not Michael Brown or Eric Garner. This thread is amazing. Rape culture and racism continally leave me in awe. Who we choose to extend grace to says so much about the culture.” – Megan
Do you HEAR her? Do you hear her honest questions about how the loud voices of the evangelical Christian community can sympathize with Josh Duggar after hearing that he has apologized, when this same crowd, by and large, sided with the cops RIGHT AWAY in the cases of Michael Brown, Eric Garner, and others.
Why do we jump so quickly to defend Josh Duggar, and the cops, while saying about Michael Brown and others.. “Well, they shouldn’t have run…”. We show Grace to Josh without a second thought, and we show condemnation to Mike Brown, Eric Garner – and we assume that everyone raving about racism in america is out of their minds…
Sacred Cows, Grace, and Justice
My Brothers and Sisters, we are called to follow Jesus each day, to preach Truth, to love others, and to reject false teachings and ways of living.
May I propose to you something controversial?
When we, as Christians, elevate the status of a Christian celebrity in our minds, we have to be VERY careful. We have to be careful because in some of these instances, we elevate the celebrity so much that we become blind to the wrong and hurtful things that they may say or do. We essentially make idols out of them; making them our “Sacred Cows“. If someone says one word against them – we are quick on the defense.
We do need to show Grace, but can we be consistent, and show Grace to all?
Finally, can we join together in the name of Justice in a fight against Christian Celebrity Idolatry, and adultery?
And as a Facebook user, Megan, observed, can we as a Church use our efforts of defense to defend those suffering racism and prejudice, corrupt police systems, etc.?
Church, I love you. Lets take some time in thought and prayer, and let us ask God how we can make the world a better place. Let us ponder how we can strengthen the bonds of our own marriages, and the marriages of those around us. Let us ponder strategies to combat lust, pornography, adultery, racism, and rape culture.
This is a Call to Action. Will you Join me in being a voice?
Please tell me your thoughts and opinions!